Possibly the most difficult thing most pastors and church leaders face is teaching, leading and helping believers obey everything the Lord had commanded us. The question is how can we do this most effectively? There are many things we can do that contribute to it such as life-changing sermons, God-encountering worship and prayer, authentic friendship, warm small group life and insightful Bible study. All the above in so many churches need to be scrutinized and reformed though. Beyond the above, I think there is something else of critical importance – ONE-TO-ONE mentoring! The most natural way this can take place is within a small group. I have come to realize that I can have good attendance at small group meetings and inspiring meetings but if no one in my group (including me the leader) takes time to befriend, support, encourage and guide one another at a one-to-one level, we won’t be able to help fellow believers obey everything the Lord has commanded us. And without obedience, we will not fulfill God’s destiny for our lives.